5 THINGS YOU SHOULD DO WHEN YOU WANT TO STAND ON YOUR OWN

This post goes more to youth or late teens, I mean eighteen and nineteen, all the same as going to another stage of life.

Many countries of the word believes that you now know right from wrong at age 18, and most constitution support your self independence and fundamentals human rights at this stage.


But standing on your own is not much easy task as it seems to be, one has to take to consideration many measures for survival, survival is what and what make you to the level of full independence from your folks, past home, families and every past of yours, if you can't survive, then I will tell you anything might happen on the course of that, for this, one needs to think of many measures that might either be of good success to you or which might serve as hindrance and obstruction on your way to survival.

For the purpose of this post, I will like to give you five reasons that can make you stand on your own and survive in the course of anything that faces you.

1. Try to realize you can do with people : knowing people is different from knowing how to cope with them, let for instance, before you were deciding to stay alone was your past, now I will say the way you have learn to relate with people in your past will help you abundantly when you decided to stay on your own, if you have realized you can't do with people, please don't jump into this logic circle, try to stay more and learn much from folks and friends around you, why am saying this is that no one is an island of knowledge and you really needs to relate with other, for this reason, you must work much harder to know how to do with people, because some people don't talk to you or want anything to do with you except they sense a high level of understanding in you, for this first reason, try to know how to to relate with people before standing on your own.

2. Achieve much in the past : this might be a little tactical, but did you believe if you haven't achieved anything it will be easy for you? The answer says nah! In the recent past with your folks, try to have achieved either education, entrepreneurship or a way you can legally make money without relying on your erlstwhile dad, the thing is make sure you have what it take, it might not be much, but try to have what it takes to survive, survival is the main sole of standing on your own, make sure at least in one way or the other you can make it on your own, you attaining some educational background might help you work in high places of respect, which will even make the people you left for new life to be proud of you.

3. Make sure you pray to God : God should always be the first thing in every human life, as a believer, we believe we are totally devoted to him who made us and he will always keep us save from danger, even our father and mother will only do their best in protecting us, but God is the real guidance that save every living being on earth, make God your priority, and I think your religions belief can also save you from danger.

4. Focus on a goal and they will be proud of you : when you focus on a particular goal, because you can't just decide a day and ask yourself I want to live alone, there will be some factors that gear that up, try not to let it be the bad influence type, I.e some wants to stay alone either to go wayward or to do some worst things in life, but if that is what you are thinking of, I won't advise you but tell you that sometimes will come when there will be no room for amendment of the way we have followed, so play wise, but if you are of the thinking type, please try to focus on your goal and achieve it with hard word and I bet you, all will be well and you will come out in flying colours that will make you reach the peak.

5. Don't rush into what is not necessary at the moment : there are many things that might not be necessary in the first two years of you staying on your own, things like? Marriage, child, and many more, before you wanna venture into this, you should first realize this is another part 3 of life, before you can really do this try to have what it takes, so that you will not become liability to either your child, your wife or your marriage, what are you thinking, marriage does not only comprise of children and wife, but includes all other factors that comes with it like, your in law brother, sister  wife family and the extended family as a whole.

I can tell you when you are ripe for it, you will feel free to venture into it and receive much support from many people all over your reach, you can subscribe to this blog with your Gmail for more our newsletter.

Bless up and stay good, enjoy the rest of your day... 
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