PSYCHOLOGY COUNSELLING : HOW YOU CAN LIVE WITH PEOPLE AND BE AT PEACE WITH THEM

Living with people is not one of the easy task in life as some of your neighborhood might be an hot temper person or may be too cold for your liking, living with people in a very local area says you too should bring yourself a little bit local to get the best out of them.


Now, most of the time it doesn't work out well for neighborhood to stay in same place without either a misunderstanding or a misconception about each other, for the purpose of this misconception that is why I write on this article as people want to feel free with their conscience and want to live happily with their neighborhood.

This psychological counseling help you know what and what to put together to form a good relationship with your society and people living around you, now let us totally get down to the main business.

Psychological humans don't want to have problem with others, but the question is why does it happen anyway? It is what I called nature, nature is something that is created naturally by God as we belief, God as the almighty gives us good and bad, it is we that have to makes the two process runs side to side without giving you or I a problem.

If it weren't for those good and bad that has being happening from start point of things then how do we wanna learn or know what it takes to survive? Now let follow this 5 psychological ways to always get over issues with people and live a life full of joy with them.

1. BE PREPARED FOR A MISCONCEPTION DAY : what do I mean by misconception? Misconception is when one did not get what other is saying right or trying to correct the wrong another person called right, misconception could happen in any friendly speech or an argument or a debate, if one is totally prepare for this kind of days then I can very much say you are removing the hook that might kill you in future from now. Don't forget be prepare, o that you won't loss that you person that has wrong you or you have wrong, just be prepared to make it cold on time.

2. KNOW HOW TO TWIST YOUR SPEECH : most people in our society today has got downturned and abandon by many people through the way they use all the direct speech in the word, their are sometimes you need to flatter a person just to make him/her laughs or a kind of cunny way to pass sarcasm on someone which will not makes him/her angry, the level of understanding how to use speech determines the level of how often people will respect you in your society, so be very tactful like a snake and wise as a dove.

3. DO THE RIGHT THING EVEN WHEN NO ONE SEES YOU : if the right thing is the order if the day for you, you don't know who is liking you, you don't know the distance fan you got through your rightful manners, don't just think of doing things for doing same, or whispering in your mind that after all no one sees me, just try to do the right thing because it is about to make you live in peace with your enemies and friends.

4. MAKE ACTIONS AND PLANS THAT FAVORS THE SOCIETY : Don't just think because you are gentle and silent, you won't have enemies and don't think if you a the most disturbing and troublesome person on earth you won't have one friend, such is life but to live with people in your vicinity with joy, don't let it get to the point people utters speech like "after all she never added to my value or help me any case, so what business do I want to have with her", think of some possible actions you can carry out or implement which will look favorable to the society, e.g you might want to help any one willing to learn on entrepreneurs, you can orient people and teach them things, this are part of creating values in the society, so don't just be an areawormer or busy body create a value for your relationship sustaining with people.

5. BE VERY CARING TO THE YOUNG ONES IN THE SOCIETY : there is one African adage that says " where a mother is, is where the child will meet up to her height", you don't know who is who among this young ones, if you can support some financially, do by negotiating with parent, this kind of children as far as you are still on earth, your names still sounds in their mouth that you are a fortunate person, they keep on giving you their blessings and in the nearest future the young grow old, but you only grow old in age but not in good health because you continue getting people around you to care for you, for this reason try to do what you can when their is time to keep strong relationships with the Youngs hen you are old.

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